“The Lord is my portion, says my
soul, therefore I hope in Him! The Lord
is good to those who wait for Him. To the soul who seeks Him. It is good that one should hope and wait quietly
for the salvation of the Lord.”—Lamentations 3:24-26
Many Christians struggle to
discipline themselves in the area of self-gratification. There are so many things we want right
now. And to make matters worse, we
usually have the ability to follow through on our desires. That is what the entire credit industry is
all about: have it now; pay later! A
business woman told me that she had gone into needless debt because she felt
pressured by the demands of her board members to expand the business more
rapidly than what she knew God was leading her to do. When God was showing her to hold steady in
the business and not expand right then, she listened to her board members and
the company is now in financial distress.
But finances are not the only area
where we get into trouble. Some people
are in a hurry to be married and therefore make an unwise choice regarding a
mate. Others do not even see marriage as
necessary and opt for premarital sex instead of waiting for the right
person. Or maybe you are just in a hurry
to become successful and well-respected in your career, never giving any
thoughts to whether your pursuit aligns with God’s plans for your life.
One reason the Lord wants us to wait is to protect us from our own
self-destructive ways. Those who can not
say no to their own desires wind up enslaved to them. God wants us to be mature believers who have
the character and self-restraint to wait
for Him to provide in His perfect time.
Because the heavenly Father is omniscient (all-knowing), He alone knows
what is best. You can trust that if He
asks you to wait, He has something
more wonderful in mind then you could ever provide for yourself.
Does anything seem to have a power
over you? If so, it may be an area that
requires the practice of self-control. Begin
to mediate on scriptures such as Galatians 5:22-23, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering,
kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such
there is no law.” Yield to the Lord and submit your desire
to Him. Then, begin saying no to
temptations as you wait for God to
reveal His will for your life.
Prayer—Father
I repent for every time that I have not waited upon You and I have insisted
upon my own way; I ask for Your forgiveness.
I ask You to help me practice self-control so that I am not pulled off
of the right path for my life by selfish desires, in Jesus Name. Amen.